When I’m lost, I’ll come to you

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So I realize I just posted not too long ago, but I found it necessary to do again.  A long time ago, Nuuna Nitely posted a picture on her flickr that had to do with cleavage.  You can see it here, although I’m about to post it again.

After being out and about today, I actually paid attention to the way some female avatars dress themselves, and it occurred to me that the rules of boobs & cleavage and general proportions are grossly abused or ignored.

Now I’m sure many of you will shout at me, “But Alex, this is SL and we can do whatever we want to our avatars!”  Case in point -> this.

Well, touche!  If you are one of those people who likes to mess up your shape because you can, then keep at it.  I’m still going to judge you.  This may sound harsh but hello – with all the fashion blogs/SL models/fashion shows/flickr accounts/photography studios/etc that are dedicated to showing off our pixels, SL is ENTIRELY about showing yourself off and letting people judge you!

With that said, if you are a person who wants to have a pretty proportionate and normal looking avatar, I am posting this here, along with some pictures of my own avatar just to show you what’s available to you in the wonderful world of SL.

First, boobs.

Not my photo.  All credit &  the picture itself go to this.

In general, this depiction states these things, specifically:
1. Boobs lift when a woman raises her arms.   Okay so, obviously, boobs have movement.  But let’s take it down a notch on some of those physics, yes?  >.> I don’t want to knock myself out everytime my AO switches stands.
2. Boobs do not defy gravity.  If your boobs aren’t very far away from your chin, you might want to have a look at the gravity slider.
3. The bigger the boobs, the more weight is added, causing them to sag.  Moral of this rule?  If your boobs are anything bigger than a small handful, see rule #2.  They shouldn’t be quite so perky!
4.  Good bras should lift the breasts. Well that’s rather self explanatory.
5. Women should NOT have cleavage without a bra.  I have broken this rule myself usually due to forgetting I had the cleavage layer on.  But I try to remember it because I look back at pictures and cringe.

Now, feel free to read the additional comments on the picture, because they’re accurate as to boobs in RL (some of which SL has no control over, or we as the owners of our avatars have no control over because skins do this for us).  And for your viewing pleasure,  I have made a picture of my own avatar just to help demonstrate the rules.

Now, for boobs!

Click to see Thelma & Louise in their larger-than-life size :>

As you can see from the photo I have depicted my boobs in three ways.  1. No cleavage, totally bare.  2. In a bikini that clearly gives them NO support, ergo once again they have no cleavage, and 3. In a bra that gives them support & lift, creating cleavage.  While it may be difficult to tell from the picture, my shape is also altered.  Yes, I really do have two different shapes depending on the state of my chest.  The ‘gravity’ is lower on the first two than on the last.

The first picture I posted about the ‘rules’ of breasts also touches on hips & shoulders a bit, and the separation of thighs.  I think that’s a lot to address in one post, so I’ll address that probably tomorrow.  But I hope you all found this informational, fun, and didn’t take it offensively.  If you did, I apologize, but I felt like this is information everyone should know, or at least have access to!

Credits:  Skin: Lara Hurley – Emma ;; Hair:  LeLutka – Drew ;; Bikini Top: L.inc – Micro Bikini ;; Bra:  Bullwinkle – Plain Bra – Blue

xx- Alex

You heal me somehow

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Hello lovelies :)

So today I was going through my inventory to decide what to wear (as usual), thinking about how today is the last day of November (holy crap!?) and found this hair by Boon that I forgot I had.

Those of you who have never been to Boon, well, I feel sorry for you!  Boon has some of the most interesting hairs I’ve ever seen in SL.  They’re very intricate, well made, and sometimes absolutely crazy– which I love!  So today’s look is built around this funky hair.  Boon hairs always remind me of something chic and classy with something slightly off-beat.  So that is sort of how I went ahead and pieced this look together today.  I hope you all enjoy it!

Click the picture for the large version!

Details:
Skin:  LAQ – Ebba- Fair – 01
Hair:  Boon – WMO003 – Black
Hairbase:  League – Amber Brunette Hairbase
Makeup:  Nuuna Nitely – Nuuna’s Face Tattoos – Pack 2 – Smokey 2
Eyelashes:  Redgrave – Luscious & Sorry.Asia – 10
Eyes:  Insufferable Dastard – Spring Eyes – Wet Sand
Teeth:  PXL – Open Mouth Addon
Facial Piercings:  Haus of Darcy – Symphony – Prt. 1 – Slide
Earrings:  Bellballs – Caged Earring – Crow
Tattoo:  Giulia Honig (owner of Diamond, but this tattoo was bought in Amnesia) – Forever
Shirt:  LaViere – Vneck Crepe Blouse – Black
Pants:  love (stylized as ▲❍▼❏) by Mae Liamano – Signature Denim – Coal Wash
Ring:  Kosh – Sade Ring
Bracelet:  Whippet & Buck – Diamond & Pearl Bracelet Stack – Black Pearl
Nails:  Mstyle – Perfect Sharp Nails
Shoes:  Maitreya – Allure – Black
Shape:  Mine!

Poses Used:  Glitterati

I hope you all enjoy today’s look, and our last day of November!

xx – Alex

The stars spell out your name

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Alrighty!  So this is a pretty informational post that I have for you at the moment.

For those of you unaware, Aikea Rieko’s (The Plastik’s owner/creator) flickr updated all of us flickr stalkers with some very sad news.  You can read about it here, but basically, her hard drive had an accident and now all of her hard work that she has done over time is gone unless she can raise the money to fix the hard drive. Unfortunately, this is a very delicate and thus expensive process.  Because it is such, she has put everything in her store on sale at a very generously discounted price in the hopes that it will generate some business and help her raise the money.

Now, many of you may know that I am literally a plastik-o-holic.  It has been one of my very favorite stores for over 2 years in SL.  I think that Aikea is a magnificent and brilliant creator, and I am trying to publicize this sale as much as humanly possible.  Please, please go to Plastik and shop to your heart’s content.  For those of you who don’t feel like Plastik is for you but want to donate, I am certain that Aikea would be very grateful for any sort of donation you could make to her, also.  It would be an honest-to-god tragedy to lose a creator as talented as she.  So this blog is dedicated to her and her store.  Enjoy the looks below, demonstrated by me and my ‘wifey,’ the very lovely Stefani Somerset!  UHNZ.

As always, click to see larger & more detailed :)

On Stefani:
Skin: 
Al Vulo – Renzie – Natural
Hair: 
D!va – Ema2 – Onyx
Eyes: 
Repulse – Rigor Mortis v2
Makeup: 
Plastik – Soul Ink – Half Lash
Facial Piercings: 
Ni.Ju – Chain Chomp
Dress: 
Plastik – Courtesan – Cane
Nails & Rings: 
Mstyle – Perfect Hand – Long v1.2
Necklace: 
Je*Republic – Pearl Necklace – Black III
Gloves: 
Glue Ink – Ree Gloves – Black Sheer
Bracelet:
Haus of Darcy – Prayer of Forgiveness
Shoes:
Kookie – Enya – Black Wash

On Alex:
Skin:  Plastik – Muted Ataciara – Lunar
Hair: 
Truth – Rylan – Blacks & Whites (modded)
Eyes: 
Plastik – Vae Collection – GlazeBlue
Lashes: 
Redgrave – Luscious & Sorry.Asia – 10
Piercings: 
Cobrahive – Nose Swirl & Ni.Ju – Monroe
Ears: 
Came with skin
Teeth: 
PXL – Open Mouth Addon
Tattoos: 
Plastik – Feathers – Tintable & Plastik – Demon Fades – Amethyst
Dress: 
Plastik – Prayer – Black
Jewelry: 
DDL – Semi-Precious Stone Ring – Opal
Nails: 
Mstyle – Perfect Sharp Nails
Feet: 
SLink – Jolie Pied Exotix – Medium
Shape: 
Mine!

Poses Used: Glitterati, E.Ink, HMAEM

I hope you all enjoyed our two very different looks!  As you can see, Plastik has items to suit your every need.  From tops, to bottoms, dresses, skins, elf ears, lingerie, shoes, and other various items of clothing & accessories, you literally can’t go wrong.  So please go shop there and help Aikea out!

xx – Alex

I wear my heart upon my sleeve, like a big deal.

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So I had an outfit that I wanted to blog for you lovely people, but I similarly had a lot of things I wanted to talk about and address.

Therefore, I’m going to be randomly blogging them in somewhat rapid succession (as in maybe 3-4 posts over the next 24 hours — some people TYPICALLY blog that in one day, but for me that is a lot!)

So there’s not much for me to say about this look.  I’ll let the pics do the talking, and just hope that you enjoy it!  I would like all of you to know how much I am enjoying Lara Hurley’s newest skin, Emma, which I blogged previously, but I have decided instead to change my skins often so that you can see a variety of ‘looks’ and not get bored with me wearing the same skin in every post :)   There are so many amazing skins out there and I want you to see them so that you can take advantage!

Anyway, I shall stop rambling and get on with it :>

Click to see the picture larger :)

Details:
Skin:  The Body Co. – Iris – Medium – Black Brows
Hair:  Truth – Janice – Blacks & Whites
Hair Base:  League – Amber Brunette Hairbase
Facial Piercing:  Haus of Darcy – Silentium & Cobrahive – Nose Swirl
Blindfold: Rotten Defiance – Blindfold V2 – Bloody
Cosmetic Layer:  Bullwinkle – Lip Gloss – Clear
Tattoo:  Aitui – Macbeth – Fresh
Sweater:  Tulip – Collision – Dark
Abdomen Piercing:  Haus of Darcy – Thrust v2 – Slide
Bracelet:  NSD (Naith Smit) – Rock’n'Rolla Strapped
Gloves: Sinistyle – Taped Fist – Full Fist & Black Nails
Ring:  DDL (Melina Anatine) – Semi Precious Stone Ring – Opal
Nails:  Mstyle – Perfect Sharp Nails – Classic
Belt:  Sweet Leonard – Douple Belt – Black
Pants:  -BC- (Byrds Cale) – Xtra Low Unbuttoned Jeans – Black
Shoes:  ASI (Dingo Nikolaidis) – Shadow Hound Digi Boots – Black
Shape:  My own! :)
Poses:  E.Ink & Zombie Fetus

I hope you all have a fabulous evening/morning, wherever you are!

xx – Alex

It’s My Heart You’ve Run Up Against

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Hello dear readers!

Thank you for coming back and checking the blog out.  I apologize for abandoning you, but I had to be authentic & true to myself and I wasn’t feeling the blog the past few months!  It will be under construction for a while so please excuse me while I sort through the mess and clean it up!  Yes, I’m back to blog for you because I’m finally feeling inspired, but there will be a few changes!

Firstly, I’m a shopaholic, not just for clothes/skins, but basically anything.  So whatever my little heart desires, I’m gonna put it here so you can all discover it also, because I just love to buy stuff in SL!
Secondly, I’m not really into ‘trends.’  I do follow them but I’m not the kind of girl who has to have everything as soon as it comes out.  I’m tired of looking around and seeing girls who all look exactly the same.  You ladies know who you are.  Therefore, you’ll see a mix of old and new within the blog and I hope you enjoy it.

I don’t want to crush you all beneath a wall of text on my first post, so I’ll try to spread it out, and just get on with the pictures and details for today! I’m so happy to be back and I hope the rest of you are, too :)

 

Click the picture to see it larger :)

Details:
Skin – Lara Hurley- Emma – Nude – Pale (newest release!)
Hair - Truth – Clara – Black & Whites
Hair Base – League – Amber Brunette Hair Base
Eyes – Insufferable Dastard – Spring Eyes – Fern
Eyelashes – Redgrave – Luscious & Sorry.Asia – 10
Facial Piercings – Haus of Darcy – Crow’s Crux
(This piercing has been heavily modded and essentially looks nothing like it was meant to.  I just love Aydan’s piercing textures and since her piercings are mod, I like to fiddle with them)
Prim Teeth – PXL – Open Mouth Addon
Tattoos – Plastik – Feathers – Faded
(don’t forget, Aikea is having a HUGE sale on everything in the store!  Now’s your chance to snatch this up for next to nothing!)
& the ‘True Love’ tattoo is my own creation (IM me if you want it, i’m happy to give it out!)
Armwarmers – Tokushi – Le’Strap Gloves Dark
Top – Glam Affair – Malice Line – Dorota – Black (worn with matching bottoms)
Shorts – Cynful – Chibi Shorts – Smoke
Necklace – Haus of Darcy – Fallen V2 – Female
Ring – DDL (Melina Anatine) – Semi Precious Stone Ring – Opal
Nails – Mstyle – Perfect Sharp Nails – Classic
Socks – Niniko – Zippered Socks
Shoes – Gos – Docs V2 – 8 Hole – Black (with “Old” texture addon)
Spinal Piercing – Haus of Darcy – Digital Spinal Piercing v2
Shape – Mine! :)

I hope you all enjoyed my random little look of the day.  I’ll be back with a new look tomorrow.  Or maybe even tonight if I get fidgety and change…which happens often

xx – Alex